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Curiously horny
Posted by Ang Mayes on January 1, 2021 at 12:13 amMy husband and I have never swung before, we have been talking about doing this for a while and talking out our fantasies but the closest we’ve come has been a few private lap dances that left us wanting more… curious as to what to expect and how others started? I’m dying to go
Niceguy replied 3 years, 9 months ago 3 Members · 3 Replies -
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If you and your husband are already curious, you’re well on your way. First, be sure to talk about it – whether you are really OK with the other being with someone else. If the answer is yes, just go to Sea Mountain! You can even agree on the first visit just to enjoy your nakedness and watch others – that’s what we did – it was so hot, our sex together (and alone) was amazing! We even woke up early in tbe morning and decided we wanted to have sex at poolside (no one was there, but we knew someone might walk by).
Our second time, we got into the pool shortly after we arrived and literally bumped into the friendliest couple, who introduced us to 2 other couples. We laughed and talked and one guy asked my partner if he could touch her – she looked at me, I nodded and she said yes. His partner then swam up to me and we kissed. After a few minutes of all 8 of us caressing and kissing, one guy says “orgy in our room?”. And there we were, all of us in bed together! It seemed so natural to both of us!
We were there for a weekend, and the next night was a costume party. We brought sexy outfits and danced in the little night club for quite awhile, gradually losing our skimpy clothing and then jumping into the hot tub. There were quite a few people in it (25 or so) and my partner went crazy! As I watched her climb between 2 guys, I felt a hand around my cock and a friendly “Hi again” whispered into my ear! One of the women from the previous night had found me!
I’ve never felt so free and natural! I’m older (60s), and just average-looking. But there were plenty of men like me, and everyone was totally accepting.
During the day, we had normal conversations with people – news of the day, sports, movies, etc. The only difference was that we were naked!
We’ve been back 3 more times after that, each visit better than the previous time.
Bottom line, your visit will be what you make it. If you are open to new experiences, they will just happen naturally. And if you happen not to enjoy it as much as most visitors, at least you will know that you opened the door and peeked through! But I have great confidence that it will be one of the greatest experiences of your lives!
Hope to see you or hear about your trip should you decide to visit. Vaccinations and warmer weather just around the corner! And if you happen to see a slightly rotund older guy with a smokin’ hot blonde in her 40s, come say Hi and ask “Do you happen to be “Niceguy76″ on PlayAreas?”
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My husband and I went to Las Vegas for our first time. It was super chill, everyone is friendly. We talked about what we were 100% okay with doing and not doing prior and things we’d be open to. Other couples checked in to see what we’d be open to. We had sex by the pool and later I was approached by another female asking if I would explore with her while our husband’s watched. We did and it was fun.
Then we went to Palm Springs which was a total party scene. Definitely better vibe depending what you like. We were having sex when another couple laid down next to us. We didn’t swap but there was female to female play more intensely than in Vegas. Being the second time we had sex everywhere and it was exciting to have others watch. -
Glad you had two fun visits! Yes, Vegas is more “chill”. I think it’s partly due to it being a lot bigger, so people are more spread out. It could also be that there are more “destination visitors”, i.e. they ate in Vegas and want to experience the nude lifestyle. At Desert Hot Springs, people ate coming specifically for SeaMountain. Plus a lot more swingers’ groups come as a group – it’s an inexpensive trip, especially if yoy stay off-property.
Sadly, Vegas is currently closed. I havent heard official news, but there are some references online that they are closed until November. I’m hoping it’s just due to Covid and they are waiting for lots of vaccinations and a buildup of herd immunity.
But it sounds like you had fun in DHS – both watching and being watched. It IS exciting, fun and healthy.
We love SMI! As soon as we leave, we start talking about our next trip. We’ve reduced our trips since Covid, but have been there twice. We trust everyone there +it’s just that someone could carry and transmit Covid without even knowing. So we’ll probably wait until we’re vaccinated, which won’t be too long because I work at a life science related company.
Welcome to the SMI family!
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